R.B. O'Brien, Writer. Poet. Author.
Picture

Sometimes i think too much...

  • Home
  • About R.B. O'Brien and The NuR
  • FREE and 99 cent Books
  • ALL MY BOOKS
  • STEAMY ROMANCE
  • NEW ADULT ROMANCE
  • POETRY
  • GOTHIC LITERATURE
  • AUDIOS and VISUALS
  • BLOG POSTS and Musings

11/10/2022

How Do You Discover Your Next Read?

17 Comments

Read Now
 
Picture
Where do you meet authors? Where do you hear about their books? How do you discover your next read? And what actually makes you BUY a book versus just waiting around for that freebie? What is too high a cost for you? Do you even need to buy books anymore?
 
You’re reading this, because, somehow, we’ve connected. What drew you to me? And how did you find me? Was it my erotic romances? My new adult fiction? Or my poetry? Or did you find me some other way and still not yet bought or read a book of mine?
 
In a world that seems to create more and more technology that is supposed to make our lives easier, it becomes more and more difficult for an indie author to decide where to spend their time. Building a following is work. It’s another full-time job to not only our full-time day jobs but also our full-time writing jobs!
Picture
When I first started, I was only on Twitter. I liked the quick banter. The immediate following. The ease with which to discover people with similar interests. And the people I met on Twitter are now some of my oldest friends in the Indie community to this date. And by oldest, I mean longest. 😊 Facebook had turned me off long before, when students of mine started to “friend request” me, and I didn’t have the heart to not accept. I saw my family in disputes over this cousin not liking this cousin’s post, and I just decided: This is a silly hassle. I don’t need social media to see my friends and family. Instagram was a novelty to me. And well, TikTok wasn’t even a thing!
 
But as time went on, I joined Facebook as RB, and well, I found myself really enjoying the medium of it. I liked that I could write as much as I wanted and wasn’t restricted to “character” constraints. I liked the groups. I liked the layout and the format. But Facebook has changed A LOT in just the few years I’ve been on it. It’s over saturated. They want you to pay for your posts or they don’t pop them into feeds. And groups seem to be a lot of the same. Silly memes. Mindless games. And places for people to be, well, social and flirty, often in the most inane and mundane ways.
 
But is Facebook  a place where people talk about books anymore? Or share their love of an author’s work? I find, more and more, people are looking to be entertained in ways that really have nothing to do with reading. And TikTok? Well, the jury is out on even how long it will last, given all the implications of privacy and the ownership in China. It’s also the biggest rabbit hole of dumb I’ve seen in a very long time. The more outrageous, the more it’s watched. It’s a strange thing, this societal shift of entertainment over truth or quality or depth. TikTok mentality is basically humankind mentality these days. But is an author making silly faces and putting on silly costumes really what it takes to sell books these days? Or does even that just lead to a laugh and an empty promise? And now Facebook is scrambling to keep up, begging people to post more reels, to compete with what exactly? More silly entertainment? Have I used the word silly yet? 😉
 
I don’t know these answers. I just know who I am and what I stand for. I know that I want to share my work with people, but I also don’t want to just give it all away to everyone for free, all the time. Actually publishing a book takes such work and energy, and every time I offer something FREE, I become a “best seller” (note the irony of the word seller there). I have often made it as an Amazon Best Seller with paid books too (who hasn’t really), but it’s usually only in the first month or two of a release or if I run a paid ad that even being an Amazon Best Seller doesn’t do more than help me break a little more than even.
 
I guess the answer, if I were to offer one, is to simply do what brings us joy, share to social media places we enjoy being on. But then again, do we ever grow if we only stay in our comfort zones? If we don’t learn new things? Is selling books really just learning new tricks? If so, this young dog may already be too old for a new bag! 😊
​
Picture

Share

17 Comments
Details

    RSS Feed

    I LOVE to write and read. I particularly enjoy reading erotic romance that has tons of emotion in it. I hope you will ask me questions and share your favorite authors and novels. I welcome all feedback.

    Categories

    All
    After Series
    Animal Rights
    Anna Todd
    Art
    Ballet
    BDSM
    Beauty
    Believe
    Bob Ross
    Books
    Childhood
    Comparison
    Current Issues
    Death
    Dreams
    Ebooks
    Education
    Family
    Fashion
    Film
    Friendship
    Friendships
    Gender
    Goals
    Grammar
    Growth
    Happiness
    Health
    Hope
    Hurt
    Kindness
    Kissed
    Leaves
    Lessons
    Letting Go
    Loneliness
    Love
    Money
    Morning
    Motto
    Nature
    Oak Trees
    October
    Paiinting
    Patience
    Philosophy
    Poetry
    Poets
    Politics
    Print Books
    Quotes
    Rain
    Rbobrien
    Rb O'brien
    Readers
    Reading
    Relationships And Love
    Religion
    Remembrance
    Romance
    Sadness
    Seasons
    Self Help
    Self Reflection
    Sexuality
    Shakespeare
    Social Media
    Sports
    Tarot
    Technology
    Theatre
    Traditions
    Trust
    Words
    Writers
    Writing

    Archives

    November 2022
    October 2022
    September 2022
    February 2022
    September 2021
    August 2020
    July 2020
    June 2020
    May 2020
    March 2020
    November 2019
    October 2019
    September 2019
    August 2019
    July 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    April 2017
    February 2017
    December 2016
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015

Powered by Create your own unique website with customizable templates.
  • Home
  • About R.B. O'Brien and The NuR
  • FREE and 99 cent Books
  • ALL MY BOOKS
  • STEAMY ROMANCE
  • NEW ADULT ROMANCE
  • POETRY
  • GOTHIC LITERATURE
  • AUDIOS and VISUALS
  • BLOG POSTS and Musings